It is hard to add to our journey as there have been no dramatic incidents. We live a happy, loving and fulfilled life together.

Submissive is now divorced. Masters divorce should happen soon but this is now not as important to them as it was some years ago.

We have many friends within the lifestyle and enjoy an active social life within the scene. We originally wrote this website with the idea of remaining anonymous to the readers. Hence the reference to "Master and submissive" rather than using names. Over the years our anonymity has been hard to keep and I think many who read this site know us real life or via on-line BDSM sites.

The most interesting development has been submissives change. To learn about this please read
Am I A Switch? and Switching .

February 2008.

We are both now divorced and we do plan to marry at some point.

We no longer think of our kids as his and hers, but as ours and they all mix and support each other as siblings, one family not two. We have grandchildren and feel that our family is very settled. We are blessed with wonderful children.

Our relationship keeps growing. We are as in love today as we were the first day we met. It is often a silly teenage type of love where you just cant get enough of each other.

Submissive is very much a Switch. She enjoys playing with both male and female subs. She has been a house Domme at several FemDom nights at one of the UK's leading BDSM clubs and enjoyed it immensely. However she is still her Masters submissive even if her submission is now more subtle that it used to be.

We often play together and separatly with other partners within the club scene. We have some regular partners and many friends who we appreciate very much.

If you wish to contact us then please feel free to do so HERE We always appreciate any feedback and we always try to reply.

Thank you for taking the time to read Our Journey.