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Age Play by a female Switch

Our Age Play

This is something that we have played around with for some years. Master was a little reluctant at first as he was not that interested in role play. However as I developed my schoolgirl character he soon started to enjoy the play.

My schoolgirl character can be found here

For me being a schoolgirl gives me a freedom to play. I have to admit I am very much a switch when schoolgirl and bully and boss other schoolgirls and boys around all the time.

When we do age play it is usually at home but sometimes I go into character in clubs. I have one main schoolgirl character. She is six and a half and is a very good girl. Ok she is naughty and manipulative and totally spoilt. This character has built up over the years, at first she very much a subby schoolgirl wanting to please everyone. Now she is out for herself. Master or “Uncle” as he is called during this type of play has built up his own character. He is very much the over-indulgent Uncle, allowing me to get away with just about anything, Up until he feels I have overstepped the mark. I then just get a raised eyebrow and my name called sternly.

As I am submissive to my Master when as my Uncle he lets me know I have gone far enough with my antics I stop and retreat into my best behaviour.

At six and a half I am very out going and full of fun, I enjoying making a fool of myself and doing all the things that as an adult I would never dream of doing.

As a switch I enjoy playing with other subs. If at a club I see a sub whom I may like to play with, I would not normally approach them as I am a shy person. However, as a six and a half year old I am a demon. I have been known to approach a group of adult schoolgirls and boys and take total charge of them all.

So as a schoolgirl I have topped subs. However once the scene starts I am no longer six and a half and up to no good, I am very Domme and I am in charge of a sub. They are my responsibility and I act accordingly. This however does not stop me during the play using some verbal age play. I love canes and have verbally gone into schoolgirl voice and told the naughty boy that I have stolen the head masters cane and then I have caned him. All the time I am giving verbal humiliation and enjoying every minute of it. When I am Domme and put on the schoolgirl voice my head space is very different than when I am in schoolgirl character. When in character I become child like, I don’t want responsibilities and I allow my mind to drift off into my world of colouring books and bubbles. I look for things I want to do and don’t give a thought for others. This is a very real feeling and often can take over, making me stroppy and self centred just like some real kids. This is when I need Uncle to step in and keep me in line.

What do I get out of it?

Besides totally enjoying myself and having fun I also find a real inner peace. For a few hours I don’t have to think of anyone but myself. I know that Uncle will keep me safe. He enjoys indulging me with little treats and I of course relish in the attention. Just before last Christmas I sat in character for a whole afternoon making home made cards with paint and glitter to give to all our friends. I had a wonderful time and Uncle then cleaned up all the mess I had made. If I had not been in character it would have been me cleaning up and not standing admiring my handy work as Uncle told me how good I had done and how proud he was of me. It may sound really silly but I was bursting with pride myself not because I had made the Christmas cards but from Uncles attitude towards me.

I also enjoy knowing that my schoolgirl character makes others laugh and enjoy themselves. I have some good friends but when we all dress in school uniform we feel closer together.

I don’t normally stay still for long when I am schoolgirl and so physical contact between Uncle and I is very limited. However now and then, normally when I have got over excited, he will just hold me close to him in a big hug calming me down. These hugs are special because they make me feel safe and cared for at a very basic level. I know as an adult I am loved and cared for very much but the feelings I get at these times has no adult logic nor understanding behind it, it all comes from pure emotions.

Sex and age play.

Sex and age play has nothing to do with paedophilia. At no point would either of us think of touching a child in any inappropriate way. We love and cherish our own children and grandchildren and feel appalled and angry when we hear of others preying on innocent children.

School play for us in not all about sex. We do sometimes end up having sex while I am dressed as schoolgirl, however we are both intelligent adults and know that my body and mind is that of a forty something year old woman and not that of a child. If during sex references are made to my schoolgirl character or to Uncle then it is in a play acting way and not in a fantasy that wants to be fulfilled.

When I am schoolgirl Uncle may cane or spank me. This is done in many different ways. Being put over his knee and a fun play spank with me screaming “its not fair” while still very much in schoolgirl character is very different than from when we have a full on play scene at a club. At these times we become Master and submissive, the clothes are mostly shed and the mind set is that of consenting adults.

Other age play.

We don’t tend to do other ages of play. I have found my character at six and a half. I love that age as six and a half year olds are able to interact at a good level but they have not yet become self aware and so do not limit their behaviour. For me that age is full of wonderment at the world with constant learning and experiences of new things.

Adult baby is not something that appeals to us. However I can see what others get from it and maybe my Domme side would enjoy some limited play as a Mummy but with a nurse to care for the adult baby as I could not deal with nappies or any mess. We have never been drawn to older age play (nine ten year old). For me the innocence has gone and the complexity of teenagers has not arrived. It is not an age that would interest me.

Teenager play I think is the most common when it comes to schoolgirl/boy. The St Trinians look and the sexy connotations can be fun. When we first started I think I may have been going for this as in my mind an adult teenage schoolgirl could be sixteen and so I did not have to worry that any sexual contact being wrong. It took me time to realise that no matter what age we play-acted, I was still forty something and an adult. As we only want adults in our role play then it does not matter what age group we play at being.

As an adult teenager our play was much more of a sexual nature, I would be flirting with uncle and our scene would quickly turn sexual often losing the age play side completely. It was only as my six and a half year old character developed did we really start to understand and appreciate age play. It’s not about sex for us it is about a freedom to explore a side that is normally hidden by social convention.

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